She's Not Hard....

She’s not hard...she’s healing from battles she never asked to fight.

Most women today didn't become "masculine" by choice ... they

became that way out of survival. They didn't wake up wanting

to carry the weight of everything alone or silence their

softness. They led because no one stepped up. They

protected themselves because no one else did. Surrounded

by men who were emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or

unreliable ... they had no choice but to tap into their strength.

She became assertive from being ignored, independent from

being let down, guarded from being betrayed. But deep

down, she doesn't want to always be strong ... she wants rest,

love, safety, and space to be soft. True femininity needs

protection and trust to bloom. So no ... she's not hard, just

tired. Not bossy, just bruised. Not difficult, just healing.

And the right man? He won't be threatened by her

strength ... he'll understand the battles behind it and create

the peace that lets her be gentle again.