Not all toxic relationships are agonizing and uncaring on purpose. Some of them involve people who care about you - people who have good intentions, but are toxic because their needs and way of existing in the world force you to compromise yourself and your happiness. They aren't inherently bad people, but they aren't the right people to be spending time with every day. And as hard as it is, we have to distance ourselves enough to give ourselves space to live. You simply can't ruin yourself on a daily basis for the sake of someone else. You have to make your well-being a priority. Whether that means breaking up with someone, loving a family member from a distance, letting go of a friend, or removing yourself from a situation that feels painful - you have every right to leave and create some healthy space for yourself...
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